If your parents are getting a divorce and you want to stop them from going ahead with the divorce, there are some basic things you can do. Do not say you have your life to live and they can do whatever they like with their marriage. You can help and if you do not know how to stop them from getting a divorce, here are some things you can do to get them to change their mind.
If you want to stop your parents from getting a divorce, you must be prayerful. Pray for your parents so that God will soften any hard heart and melt away any negative behavior that may be the reason for one of them getting a divorce. Prayer changes things. It will definitely change and heal broken hearts.
If you want to stop your parents from getting a divorce, do not take sides with any of your parents. Most of us take sides or watch helplessly when our parents are having conflicts, disagreement or arguments in their marriage. It is wrong. You must be fair, neutral and non-judgmental.
Find out why your parents want to divorce or break up the marriage. Quietly investigate the root cause of why your parents are getting a divorce and initiate moves to mend the relationship. You can invite an older family member they respect with a history of building a successful marriage. Do not invite a family member you know who has been unsuccessful with his or her own marriage or one that is cheating on his spouse.
Talk to each of your parents and let them understand the negative effects of their actions on the children. Let your parents know that the children are against their desire to get a divorce.
If you want to stop your parents from getting a divorce and you are much older, you can organize a family get together where your parents can relive their youthful romantic memories. I know you really want to stop your parents from getting a divorce. Nothing is insignificant. The little things you do now could really help prevent the marriage from a break up.
Invite your parents’ church minister or pastor or imam to help mend the marriage. Again, do not invite anyone who has never been married or has not being able to build a successful marriage.
If you want to stop your parents from getting a divorce, you should get valuable resources, e-books and self-help materials and give to both of your parents as a self counseling tool to help them learn how to stop the divorce or break up. There are several important resources in the internet today. Last month, I recommended one e-book to my friend whose parents were having difficulties in their marriage. She was amazed how the material gave the road map that transformed the marriage to a successful one today.
Yes. I know you can stop your parents from getting a divorce. We all must come together to make our marriage, our friends marriage, our parents marriage and our brothers and sisters’ marriage work. This is the revolution we need today. Join the revolution now.